Can’t get rid of them ... and also realize you can’t change reality?! Maybe you should present them a new ... amazing ... plan. … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Can’t get rid of them ... and also realize you can’t change reality?! Maybe you should present them a new ... amazing ... plan. … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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We sometimes have in our lives people that we don’t find a simple way to deal with … and some of them we can just ignore … but some of them … not.
And … most probably you can ignore an old friend … but you can’t ignore your child.
For example you might be in the position of asking your children to do the homework in vacation … which will drive them crazy … as any child, from any corner from the world.
This scenario was in my house too … and i played with my wife the role of the good and the bad cop.
You see … my wife, staying with the kids all the day became their nightmare … a communist mammy .. the worst mother from the plannet etc etc.
One day … nothing was working anymore with the kids … and i realized i need to come up with a new plan.
I told them many times how it was years ago in 80’s … when i was in school … but they ignored that … and suddenly a bright idea came to me.
I said … “Hey guys! I have an amazing idea! Let’s make a great tik tok with how the lives of children was in the 80’s.
You need to pretend that you are punished, that you need to read for 3 hours without stopping … later you need to stay on your desk and write for another two hours.
During this time i will film you and then let the kids from all around the world know how tough it was in those times.”
They looked at me … smiled … and said … “Ok. Let’s do it!”
So … suddenly what their mother asked them to do … was seen from a different perspective … the one of a tik tok.
It was a totally new experience and what their teachers and mother asked them to do, was not seen anymore as a request from the devil, but the chance of experiencing how 1980’s was for the kids at that time.
All what i was doing … was to present them a new plan of seeing reality from a different perspective … nothing more … nothing less.
The plan worked … and my wife was happy seeing that.
The devil … suddenly disappeared.
It fact … it was no evil in the whole scene … but the way of seeing the scene itself … made them believe they are in un ugly story … the one that all kids from the whole world hate … the scene of the homework.
But truth be told … i was not so wise in my past, as i was with my children … to create them this new interpretation of reality … coming with the plan of a tik tok.
No … i was not.
I was always arguing with the people that did not agreed with me … instead of meditating and come up with a beautiful new scenario.
And i ended my story … by getting rid of them … instead of finding a method as the one i found with my kids.
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